People would always want to escape to a place to get out of the regular life they had. A lot of people need to travel alone on numerous occasions but a lot of people also think if it is unhealthy if traveling in a relationship.
I initially thought this is a no for people who travel a lot because they lose a lot of time with their partners. However, I came to realize that it is not always the case. In fact, traveling can actually make a relationship even better than before and here is why and how you too can achieve it the way I did.
Alone Time Is Me Time
When I am traveling, I have a lot of alone time. This alone time will help me reflect on myself and focus only on myself. I can do things without taking anyone into consideration or convincing others what I want to do. I also made new friends every time I travel by myself. Do things that you love on your own. This will make you love yourself more. And when you can love yourself more, you can love others more.
Capable On My Own
When traveling with my partner, I tend to rely some things or even everything on her. However, when I traveled alone, this is when I learned how to be independent. I was surprised to realize that I can navigate a city on my own. You will basically be surprised to realize that you can also do what your partner can do when you two are traveling. You will definitely feel more independent and fulfilled after your solo journey.
A Stronger Relationship As A Result
Many people believe that letting your partner travel alone is giving him or her the chance to cheat. I tend to develop an attraction towards one of my new friends. However, infidelity will not occur if a person’s only motive is to travel. If he or she really has a motive to engage in minor hook-ups with other people, he or she is bound to cheat.
The bottom line is traveling alone is actually a love and trust test on a couple. If passed the test, this only means that your relationship is stronger than before.
Stay On Budget
On how I achieve a better relationship with my partner when I travel alone, we just both stay on a strict budget. Money is a common cause of quarrel between me and my partner and traveling can really affect our finances. To avoid extra expenses, we budget our money beforehand and strictly not exceed the budget. My partner also has a budget to avoid spending too much when I am away. With that, we can both have a peace of mind.
The key to keeping a relationship alive even though you are far away from each other is by communicating a lot. Set a specific time when you will call each other and be committed to it. Failing to do so can cause mishaps on your partner who is waiting for your call.
When I am away, I always tell my partner where I am and where I’ll be next. We also video call each other at least every other day. Most of the time, I let my partner do most of the talking because she definitely needed an outlet more than I do. After all, I am away and enjoying while she is home alone.
Basically, you just have to keep in touch with each other and be committed to your partner at all times. Most of all, do not forget to tell him or her when you are coming home. The best part about traveling is when you get home and the person you love is waiting to welcome you back excitedly.